This post is for everyone in a relationship presently and for those who have been in one at any point in their life, even if they are on a single train now.
What is Jealousy?
Jealousy generally refers to the thoughts or feelings of insecurity, fear, and concern over a relative lack of possession or safety.
Now I’ve heard a lot of people say, they never get jealous, no matter what the case may be, even in their relationships. I mean, to me, I feel that’s a big lie, I mean I don’t know what you think, but it just sounds like you saying, you don’t get angry. It’s just normal for us as human beings. We have emotions, and it’s very normal for us to express them.
Now the case is different when you say, I get angry, but I try to keep my anger in check, and not do something I’ll later regret, I mean that’s logical. It’s very normal for you to get jealous in a relationship, due to so many things that might occur, but how you show your jealousy is what matters. While some talk about how they feel, some keep it to themselves until e choke them, another set of people lil frosh it out immediately.
I’ve heard people leave relationships because they say no matter what they do, they’re SO don’t get jealous, and that made their relationship boring and they just had to break it off.
Now if I’m to make my stance known, I will say Jealousy is a must in every relationship, but then what do I even know *laughs*. Please feed me with your thoughts, I would love to know your viewpoint on this