Five Common Questions/Statements You Should Never Make

Humans are curious by nature, so they tend to be concerned about the lives of others. Some individuals are so forward they do not miss an opportunity to ask any question that crosses their mind, or make a remark about any situation they come across. If you are one of such persons, kindly note that such an attitude is distasteful and certain things are best left unsaid.

It is civil to stop yourself from asking certain questions. Also, abstain from making certain statements. These five questions/statements about to be enlisted should never be asked or made.

Questions and Statements You Should Refrain From.

When Will You Get Married?

It is out of place to ask anyone the above question. Not everyone wants to marry and even those that would love to marry cannot force anyone to marry them. Questions like this mount unnecessary pressure on people and could lead them into accepting a life partner that would bring to them nothing but regrets.

Honestly, you do not know the battles people go through, quite pressuring them with the when will you get married question.

Are You Pregnant?

It is distasteful to watch the tummy of others and start asking them if they are pregnant, especially without a pronounced baby bump.

Why is this wrong? It is wrong because, if your assumption is wrong, and the person in question has been trying to get a child you will simply make them sad and uncomfortable. Refrain from such needless questions.

When Will You Get Pregnant?

Quit asking people when they will get pregnant, especially newlyweds. It is not your place to ask such a personal question. Outsiders are mostly clueless about the choices and struggles of most couples, so stop pressuring them.

If a person is frequently asked the above, especially if they have underlying health issues that are affecting their chances of making babies, they could become depressed. Also, grooming children is not cheap so allow people to bring children into this world when they are ready.

You Are Fat

You should be careful when you speak about people’s weight. It is gutter behavior to fat shame anyone considering there could be underlying health issues resulting in their increase in weight.

Some individuals with bulgy tummies are suffering from fibroid, so be cautious when talking of anyone’s weight. If possible do not speak about the weight of others if you do not know how to help them lose weight and stay healthy.

You Are Dumb/Ugly/Foolish Etc

Name callings scar people for life, refrain from it. Some adults are still emotionally scarred by the unkind names they were called as children.

By all means, be kind with your words and restrain yourself from calling others names. Mean names and remarks are a great confidence killer.

Conclusion

Do you ask any of the enlisted questions? Or do you utter any of the enlisted statements? If yes, deter from it today. They are wrong and put you in a bad light.

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