After 8 long years of dating with no hope of marriage, see what this lady did to her boyfriend.

A lady identified as Gertrude Ngoma has sued her boyfriend, Herbert Salaliki to court after having enough of dating him for eight years with no hope of marriage.

Ngoma who hails from Zambia told the court that she was tired of dating Herbert who had been promising to marry her for a very long time.

It was also revealed that the 26year old lady, Ngoma was still living with her parents despite having a child for Herbert who is 28year old.

A court in Zambia

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Although reports affirm that Herbert has payed dowry to Ngoma’s parents but is yet to get married to her properly.

According to Ngoma, the main reason why she sued Herbert was to know the way forward in their relationship since Herbert has never been serious in getting married to her.

Ngoma said:

“He has never been serious, that is why I brought him to court because I deserve to know the way forward and our future.”

She also said that she started loosing trust in Herbert ever since she found out that he was texting another lady, who she believes is his other lover.

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Finally speaking, Herbert opined that he was not serious in getting married to Ngoma, and blamed the delay of their marriage on his poor financial situation and also blamed Ngoma for not giving him enough attention.


After hearing from both sides, the judge noting that there was no evidence of marriage yet advised Herbert and Ngoma to reconcile as that is the best way forward.

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